While some traditional romantics enjoy being wined and dined, there are so many ways to show someone you care about them that don’t involve dinner and fancy chocolates. We searched across the Twittersphere for statements that prove that many people find love in simple positive interactions and little moments shared with their significant other. She asked “What’s one thing your partner does that’s not necessarily romantic but makes you love them a bit more?” and people sent in plenty of unusual responses!
Love can be expressed in thousands of ways, so we hope you enjoy these responses from people who found love in unlikely places.
Here are 15 ways people show love to their partner that will melt your heart:
1. When you love someone, you take care of them no matter what it takes.
So in my last relationships, my ex used to say I’m “too demanding” or “too clingy” for asking a little bit of their time. But now my boyfriend is giving me much more than his time and effort, he takes care of me.
Now I realize, you’ll never be too much for the right person ❤ pic.twitter.com/b3kgn2PsVC— Laishiiiizuka (@laishiiiizuka) September 20, 2021
2. Couples who eat together, stay together.
I hate it when my boyfriend eats slower than me because then I finish first and usually I just start eyeing up his food too and wanna eat it
— tenacious BLM♡ (@clarasballin) April 27, 2014
3. A good partner should have your back no matter what.
I have a lab today and not enough time to go home and get lunch so my sweet boyfriend brings me lunch. I’m in love. pic.twitter.com/dfQRn0eehw
— gibbs (@gabithegreat) September 1, 2016
4. When positive thinking doesn’t work, a good old-fashioned meme can make any day better.
My boyfriend sends me wholesome memes and I have a folder dedicated to them love him so bad pic.twitter.com/Trn1tRub88
— Tootsie (@Rissbliss0) May 25, 2020
5. Being called beautiful every day of your life? What could be better than that?
My husband calls me beautiful like it’s my name .. I deserve this man. I waited my lifetime for this . #MrsMackay
— TMackay❤ (@T_Mackay28) February 27, 2020
6. Because everyone loves puppies!
Please I saw a dog and my girlfriend pointed out the smile I had while looking at the dog…Catgirl knows how much I love animals to the point she even considered getting me a puppy of my own damn I love her
— ♠️ (@ENHAKlDS) April 15, 2021
7. Guinea pigs and Disney movies can brighten up anyone’s day and offer a great way to show love.
He finds videos of guinea-pigs to play when I’ve had a bad day, because he knows I bloody love guinea-pigs.
Stayed up til the early hours watching Disney films with me when I couldn’t sleep after receiving bad news. I’m so lucky to have him ❤️— Heather (@H3atheroo) August 4, 2018
8. When your partner understand that you need some self-care time once in a while, you might just fall in love all over again.
A good partner makes Sacrifices for her Family!
A great partner knows it’s ok to be Selfish every once in awhile!
Over 300 boxes unpacked, 3 weeks of dirty hair & over a month since I took time for me – being treated was a Necessity!
A Fulfilled Life includes Balance pic.twitter.com/CzrU3iFHg4— Jessica Kern Huff (@Coach_JKHuff) April 15, 2021
9. Who doesn’t love a surprise, especially an unexpected adventure with someone they love?
For my birthday, my girlfriend took me on a surprise road trip without telling me the location and invited a few homies.
Thank you for a great time in NOLA. pic.twitter.com/0iq9aMNxnl
— Stephen Sealey Jr. (@StephenjSealey) July 18, 2021
10. Playing video games with the kids is a surefire way to win over your SO.
He plays Xbox with my children, because he understands that when you date a mum, it’s not just the two of you in a relationship:)
— Troutmouth (@Troutmouth) August 4, 2018
11. That IS love.
I work for a hospital & I’m certified in CPR & life support. My wonderful husband went & got certified in CPR so he could also save me. That’s love!
— trurogirl (@truro_girl) August 5, 2018
12. Even the little, mundane, everyday gestures can make a positive impact on your relationship.
my girlfriend is so cute and packs my lunch every single day. crust cut off, in triangles, snacks and a lovey handwritten note pic.twitter.com/Hgtf210SJd
— (@smalllfreak) June 24, 2021
13. That’s one lucky girl right there.
Whenever I fart in public, my boyfriend will take the hit and say, “Excuse me.”
— LaurenJSharkey (@theljsharks) August 12, 2018
14. Everyone knows cold feet are the worst, so that is definitely love.
Thank you for letting me put my cold feet on you. Happy birthday to my favorite person in the whole wide world. I wouldn’t want to do life with anyone else. @Superman199812 pic.twitter.com/27OmMfi9W2
— Ellie (@ellie_pineapple) September 13, 2021
15. Another definite sign of true love…when your boyfriend encourages your love of adopting stray pets.
Me, periodically: *sends photos of kittens for adoption* I WANT HER IM CRYING LOOK AT HOW CUTE SHE IS I NEED HER PLEAAASSSEEE
My friends: no
My family: no
My cats: no
Literally everyone: no
My bf: DO IT
— Kate (@murakamireads) July 11, 2019
As you can see, people express feelings in many different ways. Some people prefer a more romantic approach while others connect through humor or simply being there for their partner. Love cannot be put into a box and labeled because there isn’t just one definition of it. Everyone feels it differently, so naturally, people will show it in various ways as well.
Relationships should make you feel loved, safe, and happy, so if your partner makes you feel this way, make sure you show your appreciation! Relationships are hard work, but as you can see in the examples above, the little things matter the most.
Which of these unusual ways to show adoration was your favorite? Let us know in the comments!
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